Often your heart and mind stops working, it just refuses to see logic, there's no reasoning with it. A feeling like something is slipping away from you, a feeling that people are leaving you -alone, hurt, to fend for yourself. *terrible feeling*
Suddenly while all of this is going on in my head, a song that suits the mood and situation plays on the radio ... "Kitne ajeeb rishte yahaan pe ... do pal milte hai, saath saath chalte hai, jab mod aaye toh bachke nikalte hai ... ". It just fits perfectly for all the thoughts running in my head!
One fine bright morning, someone shows up in your life and brightens your day with a promise to stay on forever with you. A Promise - to be there for you, to be there with you, to control your anger, to share your happiness, to put a smile on your Face, to make you feel Loved and Wanted. Someone who values your presence in their life, just like you do!
Everything goes on just fine, idhar udhar ki baatein, little tiffs and 'nok-jhoks' occasionally, but all of it just increases the Pyaaarr! ;) You get addicted to that one person, Your life is entwined with theirs, their sadness and Joys become yours ( and Vice-Versa! ). You look up-to that person for advice, for a shoulder to cry on, they become your confession page, your Punching bag too! That person can handle you at your worst and definitely at your best! Loves you for what you are, notices every little thing you do or say, And you feel every piece of the puzzle falling into its place, making sense.
So all goes on perfectly buuuut oh wait! Life suddenly decides to throw a surprise/shock/twist (whatever you may like to call it) at you! Petty issues escalate to a higher level all of a sudden, neither of you see sense or logic in anything the other says, fights, insecurities, jealousy (maybe) , sour the relationship you shared! ... all the trust, love, etc. goes for a toss ...
Sometimes too much of familiarity, breeds contempt. Sometimes we have to learn to accommodate each others feelings, a little bit of adjustment on our part is required ( like the (*) asterisks sign which tells us it is mandatory ). It will gradually fall into place, only little time, space and freedom will make it all OKAY! Even if it doesn't; let things happen, go with the flow. And remember whatever happens, happens for the best!
But in all this do not forget to keep smiling and be happy... because someone told me "When you smile and be happy, my heart feels happy!" Maybe your smile will make someone's heart happy, you never know, right? ;)
P.s:- While reading the post, you would have had someone on your mind all the while, maybe a friend, best friend, someone from the family, it can be just anyone! keep that one person always close to your heart ... because that person won't leave you even in the darkest hour of your life!
Suddenly while all of this is going on in my head, a song that suits the mood and situation plays on the radio ... "Kitne ajeeb rishte yahaan pe ... do pal milte hai, saath saath chalte hai, jab mod aaye toh bachke nikalte hai ... ". It just fits perfectly for all the thoughts running in my head!
One fine bright morning, someone shows up in your life and brightens your day with a promise to stay on forever with you. A Promise - to be there for you, to be there with you, to control your anger, to share your happiness, to put a smile on your Face, to make you feel Loved and Wanted. Someone who values your presence in their life, just like you do!
Everything goes on just fine, idhar udhar ki baatein, little tiffs and 'nok-jhoks' occasionally, but all of it just increases the Pyaaarr! ;) You get addicted to that one person, Your life is entwined with theirs, their sadness and Joys become yours ( and Vice-Versa! ). You look up-to that person for advice, for a shoulder to cry on, they become your confession page, your Punching bag too! That person can handle you at your worst and definitely at your best! Loves you for what you are, notices every little thing you do or say, And you feel every piece of the puzzle falling into its place, making sense.
So all goes on perfectly buuuut oh wait! Life suddenly decides to throw a surprise/shock/twist (whatever you may like to call it) at you! Petty issues escalate to a higher level all of a sudden, neither of you see sense or logic in anything the other says, fights, insecurities, jealousy (maybe) , sour the relationship you shared! ... all the trust, love, etc. goes for a toss ...
Sometimes too much of familiarity, breeds contempt. Sometimes we have to learn to accommodate each others feelings, a little bit of adjustment on our part is required ( like the (*) asterisks sign which tells us it is mandatory ). It will gradually fall into place, only little time, space and freedom will make it all OKAY! Even if it doesn't; let things happen, go with the flow. And remember whatever happens, happens for the best!
But in all this do not forget to keep smiling and be happy... because someone told me "When you smile and be happy, my heart feels happy!" Maybe your smile will make someone's heart happy, you never know, right? ;)
P.s:- While reading the post, you would have had someone on your mind all the while, maybe a friend, best friend, someone from the family, it can be just anyone! keep that one person always close to your heart ... because that person won't leave you even in the darkest hour of your life!
wow !!!! Thats so true... straight from the heart . I dont think you might have even givin a thought to it . Its just as pure.
ReplyDeleteThank you :)
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